Every single person has a goal, a want, a need, something they want to achieve and reveal in they outside reality; at least that\’s what I choose to believe, cause everyone dreams.
Now, I don\’t really have issues with the goals, but I feel, in my opinion that the make reason why people don\’t achieve these goals is that they focus on seeing the reward as soon as possible, and loose track of progress in the transformative process.
Truth is, the results people seek, are, in fact, really just by-products of certain habits, and should they want to get such results and have them consistent in the lives, the way is to infuse these habits into the system, and by default, thier identity gradually transforms into the person they want to be.
Every action taken by any person, is actually a proof of who such a person really is. What I mean by that is, the nature of your actions, sum up your personal values, and ultimately, your identity. Therefore, the key is to not strive for instant outward change, but an identity change; such that you can consistently reproduce the results you seek.
Don\’t strive to read a book; Strive to become a reader.
Don\’t strive to give people orders; Strive to become a leader.
Don\’t strive to run a marathon; strive to be an athlete.
Don\’t strive for results; build the habits that bring you into the identity of that reality.
Peace.