So i Decided to start a blog all over from scratch, and I have decided to share a fraction of a thought i penned last Christmas as my first post. Its not the regular thought people think of, just read through to the end, and I\’m sure you\’d love it.
Now I know the title is a bit intriguing this is not the trailer for “Despicable me 4” or something like that, but it’s a piece I do hope you find thrilling, even beyond the movie…
We’ve all felt it, though more times than less we have denied its existence, but we’ve had a feeling that someone else deserves to be hated…
We’ve also been in the shoes of this other person in question, feeling it’s okay to be despised…but the truth is, we never tackle the real issue behind all this…
The average youth has a set of friends, among which he plays one of two roles; a leader and a standard that all or some of the others meet up to, or a follower that is compelled to live like the former. The problem arises when difference is observed between the two parties. These differences root out the realm of “despicable me”.
The average youth lives the life of 5 other sets of people; parents, favorite celebrity, clique, the current trend, and lastly the society or community he/she belongs to. The problem is, he bases what he deserves on what these people define to be normal; therefore, if they aren’t cool with it, its absurd…
The problem is, this has even crawled down to the way we choose our careers, as well as what we want to do, how we dress, what we listen to, who we talk to, what we read, and ultimately what we become.
For most of us, in this realm, we have made someone else feel despicable just because of how we choose to address their Difference…but it’s all because we have chosen to be someone else. The moment we are able to celebrate and accept ourselves for who we are, and be proud of our differences, we create an atmosphere of love, warmth and creativity for those around us…it’s not what makes us alike that counts…products that you can find just anywhere are not usually expensive…Celebrate your difference, and accept the fact that at the core of your uniqueness, your value surfaces and begins to take shape….
Be glad to be different, because Your difference is your Gold, when mined and refined.
Even as you Celebrate today, Celebrate Difference, and Celebrate Your Difference!!!
Merry Christmas….Do have a Prosperous new year in advance. Stay tuned….peace.
“Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” —Carl Gustav Jung